Lies and deceit

How ironic is it that the people that tell you not to lie are the ones that do it most. Words of wisdom from parents saying never to lie or deceit people because it is a sin, yet how hypocritical they are. Sometimes they jump to conclusions before any real allegations are presented to them. Having to stand someone up because your parents thing that they are a negative influence or because they think the person's family hates you. When will all the lies and deceit end. How many times must they ruin others personal life for their own pride. Do they not know the pride is the cause for many of the worlds greatest problems and is also one of the greatest sins? Its really infuriating having your hopes destroyed; soullessly and powerlessly stand there and not be able to say a word in rebuttal. Worse of all is the fact that it might also hurt others. Its not only that the situation deprives one from joy with lies, but also it can effect a person; changing ones face from joy to gloomy in less than a second. Also how can one's jealousy and envy can play such a big role in this whole situation. Jealous that they get a minor reduction of attention and envy for it back. Spoiled little brats is the best way to describe these type of people. One must learn to humble themselves and learn that not everything revolves around them. To learn humility is probably one of the world's greatest gift; you will learn to accept situations the way it is and not try to overturn the situation in your liking.